Monthly Archives: February 2018

They copy everything I do


“There are always two little beautiful humans looking at me like.

I’m the most important thing in the world. They copy everything I do, especially my son.

I’m very careful how I treat my wife because I know that’s how he’ll learn to treat women.

I call my wife pet names, and my son started calling his sister those same names.

Recently I picked flowers for my wife. And the next day he picked flowers for his sister.”

(Moscow, Russia)


When beginning to learn how to read the Quran

When beginning to learn how to read the Quran, it can seem very difficult. You seem to reap little result from much effort. It’s no wonder that some of us find it so difficult that we begin to procrastinate, or even give it up totally.

When the tiredness is gone, we feel like taking it up again, but then after some more effort the cycle repeats itself. Often we may find ourselves taking it up and leaving it off again and again without learning or progressing much from all that effort.

Imagine that someone starts learning to read Quran with the best of intentions and enthusiasm. ‘Finally, I’ll be able to recite the words of Allah, in sha Allah!’ It’s a firm belief in the heart.

After a few weeks of study, however, he doesn’t seem to be making any progress at all. Reading a page of the Quran is still not possible for him. The words look as difficult as Chinese.

Slowly the enthusiasm begins to dwindle, cracks start to form on the firm belief. Finally, after about a month, he gives it up. But he takes it up again after three months, and then gives it up after another month of struggle. This cycle is repeated for, say, two years. In that two years, he has spent a total of six months studying how to read the Quran, but he is still not able to read a page.

Now consider that his resolve didn’t break in the very first try. He continued, no matter how difficult. What do you think would have happened if he continued unwaveringly for six months? If his intention was correct, and he had even a slight bit of tendency towards learning, he would have become a fluent reciter, by Allah’s will.

Why? Because, when learning any new skill, the most difficult phase is the first. A child takes quite some time to learn to crawl, but from there, he soon learns to stand up on his own, and then very soon he is walking on his two feet, and soon after that he is actually running.

The same is true for starting any kind of motion, as students of physics will know. The most energy needs to be spent to get something in motion, but once in motion, you don’t need as much effort to make it continue.

But do we remember this when we start learning to read Arabic? Shaytan becomes very busy when you attempt that. He hates it, he becomes crazy to somehow make you stop. He makes it look so difficult you lose all hope. that’s why before even starting to read Quran, we say – Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan-ir-Rajeem.

Being given the immensely precious gift of becoming a reciter of Allah’s Book – that’s a very huge honour. And for attaining that place of honour, you need to prove that you deserve it, you need to earn it.

Once you have given the proof of your patience, sincerity and dedication, then it will be given to you, it will come to you quite easily, because Allah Azza wa Jalla said, in no less than four verses of the Quran (translation):

And We have certainly made the Qur’an easy for remembrance, so is there any who will remember? [Quran, 54:17]

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Selfies betray modesty


Selfies betray modesty

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

If you’re a Muslim sister you should not be posting pictures of yourself on Facebook, etc for the world to see. That literally and utterly defeats the purpose of everything you supposedly stand for (modesty).

Brothers that lower their gaze in the streets should not have to deal with your shoving it in their faces

“And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts.” [al-Aḥzāb 33:53]

The leader of the women in Jannah, Fatimah radi’Allahu anha, the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ, said:

”The best women are those who do not see the men and who are not seen by the men.”
[Ahkam-un-Nisa, p.219]


@“The hayaa (modesty) of our women faded, when the gheerah (jealousy) of our men died.”

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from

Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.


1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.


1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post.
‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.


(via again-black)

Source: echolessvoid

Feeling sadness for a unknown reason

Imam Ibn Taymeeyah said:

❝Sufyaan Bin ‘Uayaynah was asked about feeling sadness for a unknown reason.

He said: ‘It is a sin which you desired to do secretly but you did not perform it, so you were rewarded with sadness for it’.

Therefore, sins have a penalty, secret sins are sanctioned secretly and public sins are sanctioned publicly.❞

[Majmoo al-Fatawa, (14/111) | Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya Miraath al-Anbiyya]

اقوي ميدلي في حب رسول الله | محمد طارق و محمد يوسف ❤