Monthly Archives: January 2019

Praising Your Wife :)

“It takes only three small words to give your wife a compliment, and it does not have to be daily. However, they will have an enormous impact on your marital relationship. Those three words could be, ‘This tastes delicious’, or ‘You look good’.

Also, if you praise her within moderation in front of your family members, even if she is absent, this would be a sadaqah on your part. Just do not overdo it because too much praise has a negative effect.”

Sadaf Farooqi, Traversing The Highs And Lows Of Muslim Marriage (p. 67)

Let the Muslim woman fear Allāh

Let the Muslim woman fear Allāh and be aware that Allāh is watching her, in private, and in public.

And let her know that her covering is modesty for her and a safety valve for her that protects her, by the permission of Allāh, from trials and evil customs.

Book: A Piece of Advice and Admonition for the Women – موعظة النساء

Author: Shaykh ‘Abd al-Razzāq Ibn ‘Abd al-Muhsin al-‘Abbād
Published by: Hikmah Publications
Translated by: Jamīl Finch
Page: 100

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Do you want Allah to love you?

‎Do you want Allah to love you?

‎Shaykh a-Islam ibn taymiyyah رحمه الله said :

‎”There’s nothing more beloved to Allāh than Tawhid, and there is nothing more hated to Him than shirk.”

‎al-istiqamah,pg 135

Yes, covering the whole body is not compulsory for all women, even the Qur’an confirmed it.

The Woman Of Jannah Cover Their Bodies To Achieve Success In The Akhirat

Ukhties, Ukhties, Ukhties, Do you know that observing the correct hijab is not for all women?

Yes, covering the whole body is not compulsory for all women, even the Qur’an confirmed it.

In Suratul Ahzab ( Q33, V59), ALLAAH only mentioned Three types of woman that should observe hijab.

• Firstly – The Wives of Rasool ﷺ (which am very sure you are not among them).

• Secondly – The Daughters of Rasool ﷺ (which am also sure that you are not among).

• And Lastly – The Believing women i.e. Those women who wished to be among the dwellers of Jannah, and If you are among them, you should cover all your body properly or you might have already started covering yourself Ma sha Allah.

But if you are not among them – you are free to dress as you like.

The choice is yours, but I will pray may Allah protect brothers from the fitnah & protect you from the eyes of wolf, and make you a Muslimah, for you to enjoy the eternal bliss.

NOTE : Hijab does not mean to cover only your hair, and wear any clothes you want, NO !!, That is a big mistake. Proper #hijab is to wear a long and loose dress that covers all your body and from head to toe, and the shape of your body does NOT show in it.

May Allah Guide Us To Understand The Proper Teachings Of The Quran and Prophet.


So when Allâh chose for you the path of guidance

Beautiful advise from the Shaykh Al ‘Allaamah ‘Abdul ‘Azeez Ibn Baaz (rahimullah):

It was said to the shaykh,

“Oh shaykh, so and so has become misguided”.

The Shaykh replied:

“Perhaps his deviation was due to two things:

1. He didn’t ask Allâh for Ath-thabaat (firmness).
2. He didn’t thank Allâh for Al-Istiqaamah (steadfastness)

So when Allâh chose for you the path of guidance, it was not because you are special, nor was it because of your obedience. But rather, it was a mercy from Him that enveloped you. He can remove it from you at any time.

Therefore, do not be deceived by your actions nor by your worship. And do not look down upon the one who has deviated from His path. For had it not been due to His mercy, you would have been in his position.

Repeat the recitation of this verse while pondering:

﴿ ولوﻵ أن ثبتناك لقد كدت تركن إليهم شيئا قليلا ﴾

“Had We not made you firm (Oh Muhammed صلى الله عيه وسلم) then you would have inclined towards them slightly.”

So upon is to not to think that thabaat (firmness) upon Al-Istiqaamah (steadfastness) is due to your own personal achievements.

Ponder over His statement (Ta’aalaa) to the best of mankind: “Had We not made you firm (Oh Muhammad صلى الله عيه وسلم).”

So how about you?!

We are greatly mistaken when we disregard and pay no attention to our athkaar (supplications of remembrance).

We believe it to be something that is not important and we forget that Allâh preserves us with it. And perhaps the decree will change…

Ibnul-Qayyim says:
“The need of the servant in his supplications by which he seeks refuge [in Allah], is more severe than his need for food, drink and clothes!”

Be consistent in your athkaar (supplications of remembrance), so that you can encompass the meaning:
“Preserve Allâh, He will preserve you”

Fortify [yourselves] every morning and evening [with your athkaar (supplications of remembrance)]. For the dunya (life of this world) is horrifying and full of surprises and Allâh is the protector of His servants.

Shaykh Abdul ‘Aziz bin Baaz

Majmoo al Fatawa (297\4)

The four best women, beautiful example for us

You are a muslimah, remember :

– Khadijah,

– Maryam,

– Fatimah, &

– Asiyah,

The four best women, beautiful examples for you to be influenced by.

You do not have to fit in sister, know that this deen began as something strange and it will return to being strange, so glad tidings to the strangers.